Ladies Who Block Their Ex But Keep Stalking Him with Fake Account

See ehn ladies, Let’s be honest… this gist is both funny and sad at the same time. You’ll hear a lady shouting, “I’m done with that guy, he can never hear from me again. I’ve blocked him everywhere.” But give it two days and she’s quietly opening a new Instagram account with no picture just to spy on the same man she claimed she has deleted from her life.

Why do women do this? The truth is, closure is not as easy as it sounds. Blocking feels like taking back power, but the heart still wants updates. Curiosity can be louder than pride. She wants to know if he has moved on, if he’s suffering without her, or if another babe has already taken her spot. So while her real account is forming “I don’t care,” her fake account is busy refreshing his stories like morning devotion.

And some ladies don’t stop at just one fake account. They can create two, sometimes three. One account with motivational quotes on the bio… another with random Pinterest pictures… and maybe one with a fake name like “Precious Baby” or “OluwaBlessed.” From there, they will monitor every move, his captions, his comments, even the girls that like his posts.

I know one girl who did this for months. Every time her ex posted a picture, she was the first to see it, even before his new girlfriend. She would screenshot the post, send it to her best friend and say, “See this boy oh, after everything I did for him.” Meanwhile, the guy had no clue she was his number one silent fan club.

But here’s the wahala… this kind of stalking only keeps the wound fresh. Instead of moving forward, you’re dragging yourself back into old pain. You block him with your mouth, but you can’t block him from your heart. That’s why many ladies remain stuck, comparing themselves with the new girl, analyzing every like and every comment, instead of focusing on their own growth.

And let’s not lie, some ladies even go spiritual with it. They will be praying, “God, expose that boy for who he really is,” while using fake accounts to watch his every move. My sister, God is not mocked. You can’t claim you’ve handed a man over to God while still checking his life like NTA evening news.

The truth is, if you keep monitoring your ex, you’re indirectly telling yourself that he still matters more than your future. You can’t heal while peeping. You can’t receive new love while you’re still spying on old love. It’s like trying to drive forward while staring at your side mirror, you’ll eventually crash.

So what’s the way out? Discipline your heart. Delete the fake accounts, mute his name from your mouth, and remind yourself that if the relationship ended, God has something better in store. Healing comes when you stop feeding your emotions with old pictures and updates.

Blocking is not victory if you’re still peeping in secret. True victory is when you can genuinely say, “That chapter is closed,” and actually mean it… no screenshots, no fake accounts, no midnight stalking.

Because at the end of the day, your ex may not even care if you’re watching or not. He’s living his life. The real question is… are you living yours?