Why Your Ex Still Watches Your Instagram Stories (The Real Reason)

Be honest… does your heart skip small anytime you see that familiar name pop up under your Instagram story views? You know the one… your ex that swore they’ve moved on, yet they never miss a single update from you. Strange abi?

Let’s talk truth. Sometimes, it’s not love… it’s curiosity. Nigerians like aproko too much. Your ex may not even want you back, but they can’t resist checking if you’re glowing or suffering. Did you lose weight? Did you finally buy that car? Did another man put ring on your finger? That small gist alone can keep them tapping your stories daily.

Another angle is ego. Some exes watch to reassure themselves that you’re not doing better than them. It’s petty, but it happens. They want to know if you’re still stuck in the same place or if you’ve leveled up since the breakup. If you’re suddenly looking fresher, just know that silent monitoring might even pain them pass.

But let’s not lie… sometimes, it’s leftover feelings. Watching your story is their own way of staying close without actually talking to you. Maybe they miss the laughter, maybe they regret, maybe they just dey lonely. It doesn’t always mean they want to come back, but it shows you still cross their mind.

My advice? Don’t read too much meaning into it. If they really want you, they’ll do more than just tap on your story. Life is too short to be entertaining ghosts. Focus on your own growth, serve God well, and shine so bright that whether they’re watching or not, your light can’t be ignored.

So, when next you see their name under your story, just smile. At least, they’re still your biggest fan in secret. But the real question is… are you still watching theirs too?